Vaginismus is a condition in which a woman has difficulty having sex. It can be so severe that it prevents penetration and causes pain during sexual activity. Vaginismus affects both men and women, but it’s more common among women than men because there are more female genitalia involved.

It can be hard to talk about.

It’s hard to talk about vaginismus because it can be embarrassing.

It’s also a personal issue, which makes it even harder to discuss.

And finally, if your doctor thinks you might have vaginismus and recommends further testing or treatment—which I will get into in a moment—you may be afraid that talking about the problem will show up on an exam or during an ultrasound. This is especially true if you’re worried about what other people would think of your private body parts!

Vaginismus is often misunderstood and misdiagnosed as a sexual dysfunction.

Vaginismus is often misunderstood and misdiagnosed as a sexual dysfunction. It’s not, but many people still think that it is. The misconception that vaginismus is caused by sexual frustration or an aversion to sex can make it difficult for people with vaginismus to get the help they need.

Vaginismus isn’t caused by a lack of desire for sex—it’s actually quite the opposite! In fact, if you have vaginismus and you’re having difficulty reaching orgasm during penetration (and not just during foreplay), chances are good that your problem lies elsewhere in your body than just inside your vagina; this means that there may be other factors at play here too—like nerves around your pelvis or lower abdomen—that could be contributing factors as well (or maybe even causing this problem! We’ll talk more about these later).

Vaginismus can lead to other issues like depression, anxiety, or low self-esteem.

Vaginismus can lead to other issues like depression, anxiety, or low self-esteem. It’s not just a physical issue—it’s also a mental one. The symptoms of vaginismus are psychological as well as physical and include:

  • Fear of penetration
  • Anxiety about penetration and/or pain during sex
  • Fear that you’ll lose control if you have an orgasm (which is common among people with vaginismus)

Women may not realize that help is available.

It is important that women know that there are treatments available that can help them feel better. Many women may not realize how serious this condition is or how treatable it can be. They may also not realize there are doctors who specialize in treating vaginismus, support groups where they can meet other people with the same problem, and even medications such as VIMENTINE (dapivirine), an antiretroviral medication used to prevent HIV infection during sex by preventing viral entry into the body.

There’s a lot of shame in the treatment process.

As a woman, you’re likely to be embarrassed about your symptoms. You may feel ashamed of the pain or discomfort you experience during sex, and this can make it harder for you to seek help. You may also be afraid that people won’t believe what’s happening to you—and if they don’t believe in vaginismus as a real medical condition, then how will they know whether or not something serious is wrong?

When dealing with vaginismus, there’s always an element of shame involved: if only I were more open-minded and less judgmental; if only I could stop thinking so much about myself…

There are different types of vaginismus.

There are different types of vaginismus. Many women experience symptoms that are similar to those in other health conditions, but they may not realize it’s due to vaginismus. If you have any of the following symptoms, talk with your doctor:

  • Pain during intercourse or penetration (or both)
  • Burning or itching during intercourse
  • Discharge from the vagina that smells bad or causes irritation

If you have had these types of symptoms for at least three months and still can’t have sex because it hurts so much, then it’s likely that this type of pain is caused by vaginismus

If you suspect this condition, don’t let these complications stop you from getting medical help.

If you’re experiencing these symptoms, don’t wait to get help. There are several options available for treating vaginismus. Some doctors recommend medications and behavioral therapy, while others prescribe an injection of botulinum toxin into the vagina (specifically, just above where your pubic bone is).

If you suspect that you have vaginismus and haven’t been able to start treatment yet, don’t let this stop your efforts! There are many ways to overcome this condition; all it takes is some self-care and patience on your part. Vaginismus can be one of the most painful conditions out there—but if left untreated, it can also cause serious complications like infections and scarring that could result in permanent damage both internally and externally


If you have vaginismus, it’s important to seek help from a medical professional. It may be difficult to talk about the condition in the beginning, but don’t let those feelings stop you from getting diagnosed and treated. Vaginismus can be hard to diagnose because there are different types of vaginismus and no one test can diagnose all of them. If you suspect that this condition may be affecting your sex life, don’t be afraid to talk with your doctor about options for treatment